I feel lied to’: Newlywed, 27, whose husband insisted on waiting until marriage to have sex reveals her shock after he revealed that he has a ‘MICROPENIS’ on their honeymoon
In the post shared on Reddit’s ‘Am I the A**hole?’ forum, the 27-year-old woman with the username throwaway_peen34 explained that her 32-year-old husband used to ward off her sexual advances, claiming he was ‘old fashioned like that.’
However, after discovering that he has an abnormally small penis, she wanted to know if she was justified in feeling upset that he had likely lied to her about why he wanted to wait until marriage to be intimate.
‘So, we only dated for six months. We’ve been engaged for another six and just got married on Saturday,’ she explained. ‘I literally just got back from my honeymoon a couple hours ago.’
The woman noted that her husband isn’t religious, but he claimed to have ‘old fashioned’ beliefs about saving himself for marriage.
‘We got close to fooling around a couple times, but it never went far,’ she said. ‘I tried, but he always stopped after it went “too far.”‘
After discovering his penis is ‘about an inch and a quarter’ long, she wanted to know if she had a right to be angry.
‘Am I the a**hole for reading into this and being upset that I waited until my wedding night to find out that he probably isn’t as “old fashioned” as he says he is?’ she asked.
The woman stressed that she was ‘not going to shame him,’ admitting that she wouldn’t even know how to ‘broach the topic.’
‘I honestly just acted like nothing was out of the ordinary and went to town with him, but . . . I dunno,’ she explained. ‘I kind of feel lied to. Like a half-truth . . . or something was intentionally withheld from me.
‘This was unexpected, to say the least.’
Many commenters agreed that the woman’s problem is about more than just the size of her husband’s penis.
‘This is a serious trust issue,’ one person wrote. ‘It’s not the size that’s at issue here, it’s the fact that #1, he didn’t trust her enough to tell her, and #2, now she cannot trust him not to be dishonest.’
‘Wow . . . and this, kids . . . is why you don’t wait till marriage to have sex,’ someone else added.
Another person pointed out that the woman made a mistake by deciding to marry her husband after just six months together.
‘At this point, I think you have a lot of surprises ahead of you, the person commented. ‘Buckle up cause you just married a stranger.’